We went to the city today just to have lunch and hung out at the Melbourne Central. If we go out we just ride a train  since it's the most suitable and practical way to get there rather than renting a cab or riding a tram. Just imagine we have all boys kids and we still don't have our own car yet. All the people who will go to the city just left their cars somewhere near the train station. Melbourne City is quite far from our place but we love to go there especially second Sunday of the month. Yeah I remember tomorrow is second Sunday and we're gonna be there again because of the Filipino Mass. It's nice to see lots of Filipinos when you're not in the Philippines.
This morning, on our way to the City and we're riding the  train it's already quiet full and we have no choice but to sit separately. I was sitting near the window with my second son but my older son whining that he wants to sit near the window. To avoid complication and to make him sit down I transfer to another place not so far from them. My hubby just standing near the door holding the stroller of our youngest son and the little boy was asleep.
I'm sitting beside  an Australian guy I think in the early 20s of age. I don't know what he is doing the moment I sit beside him but after a while he suddenly asked me "hi, so what you been up today?" I was like what? And then he asked me again with a very warm smile. I don't know what to say, I don't know what to answer so I just give him a timid smile and look away.I felt awkward and I can hardly move. Gosh I know my hubby is looking at me and I'm sure he will freak out if I will make a conversation with a stranger. I don't know If I embarrassed the guy.I noticed that after a while he stand up and then go next the door and go down the next station. I'm guilty with what I did but I am also scared. I'm sorry for him. Any conversation between us will ruin my family day. I don't know if the guy notice that I'm with my family and if he's thinking if I'm single. I must admit, no one will think that I am married and already have kids if I go out alone. Even my wedding ring can't prove it but of course I don't deny that I am. Some people believe and some were amaze. I don't know if I should be proud for myself but I always find trouble with my man because of it. Yeah, I have a very jealous and possessive husband although we already have 3kids and been together for 8years. It's his nature to get jealous no matter what I do.
When we arrived at Melbourne Central and was about to go down my man looks at me strangely. I know what he is thinking. Then he asked, "What's the guy asking you huh?" So I tell him the truth. He just said "damn that man, you shouldn't sit beside him, he is always looking at you, he remove his headphone on his ear, fix himself and look at you again! he is interested in you, what did you answer to him?" See..I am right, my man is watching every movement I do and the guy as well. He is very jealous and I can see it with the expression on his face. He also said that he was preparing his punch to hit the guy if he do something to me. For goodness sake. I was just glad that the guy don't insist with his question. Whew! What the heck! Oh well, thanks God everything turns out just fine after the intense situation. If were in my situation, what will you do if you also have a jealous possessive hubby like mine?

Hmm... sometimes, it just takes time and trust. Your husband should have trusted you since you already have a wonderful family with him and two kids.

Well, I must admit that guys can be worse than gals when it comes to jealousy.

Have a great day anyway.

Joy, I don't know if my comment was published or not, di ko kasi makita kaya try ko ulit. Kung magkadoble or triple paki-delete nalang yung iba. :)

Hi Joy, baka yumaman ka masyado, dami mo palang blogs. LOL Nag-umpisa ako ng isa pa, pwede paki-link sa mga blogs mo? I'll add ur other blogs na hindi pa nakalink sa akin.
MAsyado palang jealous ang asawa mo. Kahit na siguro dala mo mga anak mo baka akala lang nila babysitter ka. LOL
Eto mga links ko:
http://babettesblog.com - Definitely Maybe
http://kusineraUSA.babettesblog.com - KusineraUSA
http://www.onehomediva.com -Everything Plus the Kitchen Sink

DI ko pa tapos yung bago kaya private pa. Hopefully maayos ko na layout para in 3 mos. pwede nang kumita.

Sangay added u na!!! Anyway, thanks for sharing this post. Thank goodness nothing happened. Heheheh...If my husband will get jealous of something like that too. I guess, your hubby was right, since he had been looking at the guy...thank goodness the kid move away! heheheh:)

Well Joy you can't blame him you are a very beautiful women.Many men talk to my wife but i trust her because she loves me. I hope you dont mind but i have another tag for you. :)

a tag for you sangay! http://honeybabybee.bravejournal.com/entry/23904

funny story joy. hehe. opposite man mi sa among case, kasi akong yung najijealous palagi...hehhee..! im glad everything turned out fine. miss yah. la pa me nasasubmit na post, as usual got busy with work. i am also able to grab some oops. :)

Well, I think your man has a reason to get jealous, because you're pretty. If I were you I will do what you did also. Or worse I'll tell him that, "why the hell are you asking me that question?" hehehe! Just to freak him out! lol! I was just kidding. Anyway I think you should be proud for those things, cos it's a gift to have that charm! hehehe! have a nice day!

i can picture your face while that is happening! hay naku, puro ka na naman siguro reklamo if you have a friend there and have seen your hubby's reaction! ganyan talaga, kapag sexy ka!

hi joy,

before ko comment, mo shagit sako waaahhh kadaghan nimo ug blog oi..nalibog ko usahay..ako to e update imong mga blog to seperate aron kabalo ko ingaw na..heheh

back 2 the topic: although Joy, wala pakoy uyab ug bana pero ka relate sad ko anih basi sa mga books heheh u have to explain ur hubby na he should trust u..love is trust man jud..kailangan lang siya mo salig nimo kay u love him to spend the rest of his life..u already have 2 adorable kids that the fruit of the love..well, sometimes naa jud ng ginagmay selos pero explain lang tanan...mura ko true ug experienced kaau..ambot gani sakto banih..heheh


cheers joy!:)

Joy,

Don't worry too much for as long as he's non-violent eh ok lang. Mahal ka ng husband mo pag ganyan.

Hi Joy, your hubby should be proud that guys still think that you're available because it means you're still beautiful. Anyways, buti nalang nothing bad happened. Oy, thanks for the tag pala..i'll do it this week:)